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I found my son with one of his friends naked?

March 19th, 2010

I am a single mother and need some help. I came home from work today about an hour before my regular time. I did not hear anyone home and when I went to my son's room to get his dirty laundry, I found him with his best friend and both of the boys were naked. His friend was on the bed and my son was giving his best friend pleasure. Both boys looked like they were enjoying what was going on very much. When I saw this, I was in such shock, all I could do was gasp and walk out of the room. At that time they heard me and my son started to cry. Both boys got dressed and came to the living room and said they never did this before and were very sorry that they did it, and promised me it would not happen again. I remember my husband telling me before he died, that boys do experiment with some things. I do not know if that is all they were doing or if he is gay or something. I do not know where to go and ask because I do not want everyone knowing this and make fun of the boys. They are both really good boys and have been friends all of their life. What do I do?
Mary

If you told me how old they were that would help a bunch

At 12 years old, this is experimenting at its best. At this age, boys are able to understand that it is exciting to explore, but they also do not quite have down the whole "sexuality" thing yet - meaning they could be straight or gay. Assuming you have no problem with you kid being gay, then just make sure it stays in your house and in private and that both parties are willing. They may just be looking for fun, or they may be curious or gay or anything.

Also, you mentioned your husband died. I'm assuming this was your son;s father also. He could be acting out in this experimenting way because of the loss of his father. Talk to him in private and see if he has any thoughts about his father. Maybe there is some unresolved issues that need to be talked out. Some more emotions explored.

Whatever you do, do not freak your son out and blame him for anything. Then you'll have a lot bigger issues to work through than him just playing with another 12 year old.

probably just curiosity, doesn't mean he's gay

don't expect no grand kids. did you set down and fully talk to them. lady all boys don't go threw that. this something that they have been during and just got caught.

First of all you need to have a private talk with your son and get this out in the open with him. Tell him that you understand that guys and girls will sometimes experiment with each other and that you don't want him to think you are mad at him or anything. He's feeling very embarrassed right now and probably humiliated. Go easy with him.

how old are they?

how old are they??? i think that if they are 14, the are possibly gay....You never know, they could've been doing this for a while..I think he cried because he was embarrassed... you should sit your son down by himself and talk with him... and then maybe you should talk with the best friend alone....and maybe after that you can talk with them together to try to get to the bottom of this....ask them, what they were doing, why they were doing it, how long they've been doing those types of things, and are they gay.

This is a very tough situation...my older sister was caught with one of her friends doing the same thing and she turned out just fine...she is married and has kids...most likely they were just experimenting and it probably wont happen again, so don't freak out...maybe you should sit your son down and talk to him about it...

it would be helpful if you said there age. if they are under 14 it was probably just experimenting, but older, your son might be gay or bi

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